You Can Be Daring Without Being Reckless
When I was younger, I believed that daring had to come with danger.
Big risks. High drama. Leaping without looking.
Daring, I thought, meant burning the ships behind you and figuring it out mid-air.
And for a while, that was how I lived—on the edge of chaos, mistaking adrenaline for aliveness. I thought if it wasn’t wild or scary, it didn’t count as brave.
But I’ve since learned that true daring isn’t reckless.
It’s intentional. Grounded. Soul-led.
Why We Mix Up Daring and Danger
For many women, especially those of us who were raised to “play it safe” or “be careful,” anything outside the norm can feel rebellious. Risky. Dangerous.
So, when we finally take a bold step, such as leaving a relationship, starting a business, or speaking the truth, we feel like we have to go big or go home. We swing the pendulum hard. We torch the bridge.
But there’s another way.
You can be daring without destroying everything in the process.
You can stretch yourself without snapping.
You can say yes to the unknown without needing a dramatic exit from what you’ve outgrown.
The Daring That Heals
The most powerful moves I’ve made weren’t loud.
They were quiet. Personal. Spiritual.
Like moving to a new city by myself—not to escape, but to grow.
Like walking away from alcohol—not with a declaration, but with a whispered prayer: “I want to feel alive again.”
Like choosing to let go of an identity that no longer fit, even though it was familiar and safe.
These weren’t reckless decisions. They were daring acts of self-trust. They were the moments I turned toward the light instead of numbing in the dark.
What Does Daring Look Like for You?
It might look like sharing your truth out loud for the first time.
Or signing up for a class you’ve talked yourself out of for years.
It might mean applying for the thing you don’t feel “qualified” for… or starting a conversation that could change your life.
Daring isn’t about danger.
It’s about deciding to live with your whole heart.
It’s about being you from the inside out, even if it looks, sounds, and feels different from what everyone else expects.
Your Reflection
- Where have you equated daring with being irresponsible?
- What’s one area where you’re craving a bold move—but fear being “too much” or “too impulsive”?
- What if your next step didn’t have to be dramatic—just true?
This Is the Return to Light
The woman you were always meant to be is waiting.
She doesn’t want you to crash and burn—she wants you to rise and remember.
You can be daring. You already are.
And you are so loved.
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About Teresa Rodden
Teresa Rodden is a coach, author, and guide for women in their prime who are ready to stop numbing, start feeling, and live with purpose. Through her signature message, Love Yourself Back to Light, Teresa helps women reconnect with their truth, rewrite limiting narratives, and remember their brilliance. Whether through her writing, coaching programs, or live workshops, she invites women to embrace curiosity, courage, and the power of their own story.
Connect with Teresa on Instagram @i_am_teresarodden or learn more at TeresaRodden.com.
